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My Dad’s Abuse Haunted My Relationships
Fact: not everyone has an overall happy upbringing or nurturing, relatively sane parents. I was lucky enough to score one out of two: my mom’s pretty cool. My father on the other hand… The emotional mind games were unparalleled, the verbal abuse was unrelenting, and it occasionally got physical too. My father’s default setting was one of deep anger and bitterness at how the world had wronged him, and as he saw it, his wife and children continued to perpetrate the overarching injustice at his expense. Although it’s impossible to boil down a father-daughter relationship to a few brief words, I’ll try. https://www.goalcast.com/2019/08/20/my-dads-abuse-haunted-my-relationships-until-i-learned-how-to-banish-it/?fbclid=IwAR0aiA1Pa2SSexkC-aST9MTe1cAxVJq4fz4D9esN-9fss-DcqLsOW52DvWg
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Why do we treat old people like babies? Ageism.
Elder speak is the condescending language — "Dearie" "Honey" "Sweetie" — many people revert to when talking with people advanced in age. People spoken to in this condescending way, Yale researchers have found, begin to think, act, and even move differently.https://bigthink.com/videos/why-do-we-treat-old-people-like-babies-thats-ageism
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Ways to Tell if Your Crush is Secretly Into You
Hey there, single people. I know my entries usually talk about marriage, couples, and breakups, but I’m dedicating this entry to you fine folks! It is not uncommon to meet, during stints of “singleness,” a person that gives you butterflies and makes you feel warm and happy inside – a crush. There are some pretty easy ways to tell if your crush likes you: if they flirt with you, if they sit near you, if they make plans with you, etc. But in 2019 many people are keen to the overt signs of romantic desire and may express their interest in using new methods. I’m going to show you five uncommon ways to tell if your crush is into you – and how to differentiate them from a coincidence. If you can catch these behaviors, it may be time to take the leap and ask them out!https://www.luvze.com/ways-to-tell-if-your-crush-is-into-you/
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How long before “defining the relationship?"
Of course, every relationship is different, and there's no way to know whether your relationship was meant to last or not. But, according to experts, there are some fairly basic rules to follow when it comes to defining the relationship. For instance, just because you define the relationship, that doesn't mean you'll make it last forever and ever. Benjamin Ritter, MBA, MPH, and founder of The Breakup Supplement, tells Elite Daily that "Nothing ever ensures you’ll stay together in a relationship. Anyone can lie, but bringing up the conversation makes sure that a person cannot just avoid the topic." https://www.elitedaily.com/p/how-long-should-you-wait-before-defining-the-relationship-heres-what-experts-say-9930026
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Interracial couples are more likely to fail
There are a number of reasons why people may enter into interracial relationships. First, some people may want increased status be it real or imaged. Second, some people might have failed to find a satisfying relationship within their own groupings. In addition, some are forced into mixed relationships by pregnancy. Dating or marrying someone from a different background requires effort and understanding and it solely depends on the individuals concerned and their families. All couples experience all kinds of problems but this intensifies if couples are of a different background. https://www.chronicle.co.zw/problems-of-mixed-marriages/
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Couple Goals: Pierce Brosnan and his wife
Either as the ultimate ladies man in James Bond or as the dashing lover of Meryl Streep in Mamma Mia, Pierce Brosnan is definitely one of the most charming actors of his generation. However, his offscreen romance is better than any film. The actor and his wife Keely Shaye Smith have just celebrated 25-years together, and it is obvious the two are still smitten. https://www.loveunconditionally.co/2018/09/after-being-together-for-25-years-pierce-brosnan-and-his-wife-are-what-we-call-couple-goals.html?fbclid=IwAR3B8Raj46E9N9ILthH5qIGs3J6JubpcQixFXXdpXV1ZM-pzcFFoWnteigQ
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Actually, marriage sucks!
Marriage can be a wonderful life-long partnership between two people that often results in raising children, shared experiences, better health, and, ultimately, happiness. It can also fall apart, leading to divorce, lifelong trauma for you and the kids, as well as loneliness, which has all the hallmarks of a nationwide epidemic. 47% of Americans do not have meaningful interactions with friends or family on a daily basis, says a 2018 survey by the nationwide insurer Cigna. Making marriage last requires both work and an understanding of the ebbs and flows that are a part of any relationship. According to a recent study "Personality Change Among Newlyweds" by the researchers from the University of Georgia and the University of California, achieving marital satisfaction also calls for understanding how the personalities of the partners inevitably change over time. The scientists found that personality changes begin right from the onset of a marriage, as partners adjust to their new roles. The most significant difference that takes place is that husbands and wives become less agreeable. https://bigthink.com/paul-ratner/how-getting-married-changes-your-personality