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Should I lend money to my financially frivolous bf
My boyfriend and I are in our mid-20s. We’re in full-time employment and live separately. We each earn a modest amount, with him about a grade higher than me. We have very different views on money. I’m frugal, he’s somewhat frivolous. He often borrows money from me at the end of the month. I have obliged in the past and he returned it as soon as payday came around. I have recently moved out from my parents’ house and so my outgoings have increased a lot. I have savings, but these are strictly for a house deposit. I told him that moving out would mean that I wouldn’t be able to lend him money any more, but he asked again. I refused, and this escalated into an argument, with him accusing me of not helping when I can, and that doing this out of principle has hurt him. We can’t agree, and I’m not sure how to move forward.https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/aug/02/should-i-lend-money-to-my-financially-frivolous-boyfriend?CMP=fb_gu&utm_medium=Social&utm_source=Facebook&fbclid=IwAR3Jk9UDJH3nivKUIw8WT8TGh0nTryDLy6iOOgzhDk3ETRdBw_T8wJROCJ8#Echobox=1564744695
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Long-distance relationships are not worth it
The long distance relationship – or LDR – is a contentious issue in the dating world. People seem to be divided as to whether they are worth investing in. On one hand, the LDR can be like setting yourself up for frustration, pain and heartache. Why would you knowingly enter into a relationship that may be doomed from the start? Expensive airfares, long absences, painful video-chats and easily misinterpreted text messages – why bother? On the other hand, if there is a strong level of compatibility and you really believe in the potential of your union, surely the distance becomes irrelevant? If you’re reading this you’re probably either in an LDR or considering one, and wondering if it could work . https://www.eharmony.com.au/dating-advice/dating/can-long-distance-relationships-work#.W7DefPl9jIU
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