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I help people navigate higher romantic love.

I have always processed romantic relationships differently from people around me. From a very young age I have been tuned into a deeper, more profound level of connection than what I saw being displayed in my environment and in the media. Being a very empathic person, life was extremely difficult for me - ESPECIALLY in the area of romantic love. I couldn't relate to the superficial level people were interacting from and I felt like an alien on this planet. Sound familiar? After much struggle and ostracism from my peers I was finally able to love in the way that, on some level, I knew was possible. I found it natural for me, when in relationships, to unveil anything that was blocking deep connection and quickly resolve the issue. In addition, I found it just as normal to merge with my partner's soul as holding hands is for most - I hope I didn't loose you on that one. I am passionate about helping people tune into soul satisfying states of connection and truly enjoy my work. If I were a billionaire and never needed to work again, I would still be sitting with people and guiding them into ecstatic states of love and bliss. Dedicated and devoted wife and mother of two.

Divorced People: Fight That Ended Their Marriage

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It’s a rare divorce that doesn’t have some long-simmering anger and tension behind it. For most couples, arguments build up and soon enough, you’re one fight away from throwing up your hands and shouting, “I’ve had enough!”

Recently, we asked divorced writers to share the one fight they consider the last straw in their marriages. See what they had to say below.https://www.huffpost.com/entry/divorced-fight-that-ended-marriage_n_5b633831e4b0de86f49f15c5?utm_source=women_fb&utm_campaign=hp_fb_pages&ncid=fcbklnkushpmg00000046&utm_medium=facebook&fbclid=IwAR0os2CgHUjot-Aa2QptOhKtxp1OhKHoMSnOaNAv52ssQYe1wddZ3QyKLVs
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Little things add up and one small thing can end everything.
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What can you tell us about this? Please share your experience.
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The LAST straw for me was when my ex said,""I don't know how the heck you're gonna try to go to grad school, you have the kids, the house, my business paperwork, and your career to take care of... you're not organized enough to add grad school onto your plate.""

Oh, btw, I finished grad school two years after the divorce was finalized.
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Do u want life partner , i am here 23 years old
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The LAST straw for me was when my ex said,""I don't know how the heck you're gonna try to go to grad school, you have the kids, the house, my business paperwork, and your career to take care of... you're not organized enough to add grad school onto your plate.""

Oh, btw, I finished grad school two years after the divorce was finalized.
Glad you added your happy ending in here. More people need hope. smiling face with smiling eyes
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When I was extremely pregnant with our daughter and experiencing complications that had me on bedrest, I asked my (now) ex to clean up the supper dishes and load the dishwasher. His reply, “You act like you’re the only woman who’s ever been pregnant before,” was part laziness and part he was wanting to get back to his porn on the computer. That’s the moment I knew I was done and had to start making plans to get out.
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There was no fight. Mine sent me a Facebook message saying “I’m ending the marriage. Please don’t ask to work on it. I haven’t loved you for awhile.
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There was no fight. Mine sent me a Facebook message saying “I’m ending the marriage. Please don’t ask to work on it. I haven’t loved you for awhile.
I felt cold reading that. That’s a shame I’m sorry. pensive face crying face
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I felt cold reading that. That’s a shame I’m sorry. pensive face crying face
Cold, but yes, there doesn't have to be a major tipping point.
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Cold, but yes, there doesn't have to be a major tipping point.
Thought he was the love of my life and for a long while I was devastated. But in the past few years I’ve learned to enjoy the freedom of having to only concentrate on me.
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When he took a long handled shovel to my 14mo cocker spaniel pup.
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He wouldn’t let me turn the heater on when I was cold. One day it was simply not allowed. He hung a sign on the thermostat that said, “do not touch!” I paid the bills... suddenly I realized how many of my basic needs and rights had been stripped from me over time. That was the straw that broke the camels back.
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