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Interracial couples are more likely to fail

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There are a number of reasons why people may enter into interracial relationships.
First, some people may want increased status be it real or imaged. Second, some people might have failed to find a satisfying relationship within their own groupings. In addition, some are forced into mixed relationships by pregnancy. Dating or marrying someone from a different background requires effort and understanding and it solely depends on the individuals concerned and their families. All couples experience all kinds of problems but this intensifies if couples are of a different background. https://www.chronicle.co.zw/problems-of-mixed-marriages/
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Being an interracial couple can be difficult at times by virtue of the fact that we deal with bias and discrimination in our day to day lives. Ideally, love should have no bounds in this regard. However, we are dealing with reality and reality is that others may harbor negativity about you two. You might also run into conflict between you two when asserting your values that are based on your own racial or cultural identity.
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What are some of the common obstacles faced by inter-racial couples and what are some of the best ways to deal with them?
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Most times families canbe the biggest obstacle. I think for a lot of people it's OK if it's 'out there' and it's other people but when it comes home and it's something that forces them to confront their own internal demons and their own prejudices and assumptions, it's still really hard for people.
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interracial couples still face hostility from strangers and sometimes violence.
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Don't fall into the myth of thinking that your love for one another can overcome anything life throws at you. Every inter-racial couple needs to develop and use effective communication skills so that difficult times can be handled in healthy ways.​
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If you want to have a strong interracial couple, believe in who you are. If you feel confused about your own life, deal with your own issues before trying to merge your life with someone else.
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I believe that two people are connected at the heart, and it doesn't matter what you do, or who you are or where you live; there are no boundaries or barriers if two people are destined to be together.
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I'm a white man and in my younger years, I was dating an African-American lady. we decided for an apartment together. I had the woman who was showing the apartment tell us, 'I don't rent to coloreds. I definitely don't rent to mixed couples.
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If you want to have a strong interracial couple, believe in who you are. If you feel confused about your own life, deal with your own issues before trying to merge your life with someone else.
Along with that, discuss your cultural differences regarding topics such as religion, diet, birth control, parenting preferences, grief, finances, sex, extended family relationships, gender roles, communication styles, and traditions. The racial and cultural differences in your interracial relationship won't necessarily cause your relationship to fail. What can cause an interracial marriage to fall apart is the inability of a couple to handle their differences and a failure to talk about stress and prejudice created by others.
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now if any of yall from the north we don't have that big of a problem im in a interracial relationship as we speak
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so yea
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My boyfriend and I went to Disney World with my side of the family. So there’s 11 black people and only one white man. We’re in line and when it’s our turn for the ride, they always cut the line off when it got to him. Everyone had to explain that he was in fact part of our group and no, he wasn’t trying to cut us....People always make the assumption that we're not together.
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oh im sorry bout that
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At the end of the day, you are dating each other and not each other’s cultures or families. You have to respect and love the person you're with
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I’m not going to lie, sometimes it kills me that we actually have verbiage like “interracial relationships”; it just seems so trite and unnecessary.
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