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Date someone because you already see a future, not because you want to see if you would work out

With over 15 years of experience and a passion and dedication to matchmaking, I have established myself as the go-to authority for helping singles find their true love. In my career, I have helped over 1 000 clients and continue to help couples build stronger and sustainable relationships. The thing is, when you know what you're doing, love isn't hard! I think it's crazy that we grow up never being taught how to date or find love. It's one of the most important things in life and most people are just left to work it out without any support. Big, amazing, head over heels love is available to everyone but so many people don't believe it! That's why I decided to go and train as a coach. I want to help people find the love they deserve. I want them to wake up every day with a person that adores them!

Modern Relationships are Scary

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Modern dating scares me because it’s impossible to distance yourself from someone you once loved. You struggle to move on, to tell yourself you can live without them, because they are always staring back at you from laptop, phone, and tablet screens. Even if you try to erase all traces of their existence, if you smash block and delete, there’s always a friend of a friend posting a picture with them or a Facebook memory that will make your heartache come rushing back. Closure is hard to achieve — and it seems like no one wants to achieve it. Exes will text you out of the blue when you feel like you are doing fine without them. They will ruin all the progress you made getting over them with a drunken miss you text. They will make sure you keep coming back to them, even when they have already made it clear they are the wrong one for you.https://thoughtcatalog.com/holly-riordan/2019/02/modern-relationships-scare-me/?utm_content=bufferd3540&utm_medium=thoughtcatalog-main-social&utm_source=facebook&utm_campaign=social&fbclid=IwAR1Jw8A5nP4v9dyPXYYg3l049aCNim-oxH5RyLuGVborjO_63NaQcLq1WI4
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Relationships become scary for some today because it can start and end so suddenly. You can have that someone today and gone tomorrow. That's how the dating game looks like now. And another thing is that, the moving on part with someone nowadays is really hard because of the technology that we have. Especially if you are a person who loves to use social media platforms like Facebook, etc. There's always something that will remind you of your past relationships and the people you want to forget. Healing is a process that everyone needs after a break up and living in solitude is necessary.You should be away from things that will trigger the pain over and over again which is so impossible to do now with our technology, right? But it doesn't mean that we should be afraid or scared of it. We should learn to adapt.
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Should we really have to be scared of modern relationships?
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And when you try to pour out your love and everything you could ever give to them, its still not enough because they’re either broken or haven’t moved on from their previous relationship.
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And when you try to pour out your love and everything you could ever give to them, its still not enough because they’re either broken or haven’t moved on from their previous relationship.
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And when you try to pour out your love and everything you could ever give to them, its still not enough because they’re either broken or haven’t moved on from their previous relationship.
Never ever love a broken person.
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And when you try to pour out your love and everything you could ever give to them, its still not enough because they’re either broken or haven’t moved on from their previous relationship.
That's why it is a must for a person to heal first from his/her past relationship before entering into a new relationship. The sad thing about some people nowadays, they are afraid to be on their own and face their pain. They will jump into one relationship to another to numb it or maybe use it as a tool to forget. Which is obviously won't work.
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Faith Christians! This is why I think staying single the rest of my life is such a great idea.
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Don't put in too much effort, just enough to show how you feel about him sincerely.
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"No matter how much effort you put in, it’s useless unless the other person puts in effort too." Well yah that's how relationships work? Both parties have to want to be together and work together for it. IDK what kind of person would think otherwise?
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Hard to be all in when you have walls and guard up but it's the only way to find love and or hurt. Everything in this universe is balanced. You would not know love without heartache and pain. -Single Super Papa
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"No matter how much effort you put in, it’s useless unless the other person puts in effort too." Well yah that's how relationships work? Both parties have to want to be together and work together for it. IDK what kind of person would think otherwise?
For real. It’s always been that way, SM just puts it all in our faces
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With the advent of modern technology, dating has been reduced dramatically to a swipe..
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Never ever love a broken person.
Trying to love someone, who has been broken. causes so many problems. Its like you do all you can and then realize they are not trying.
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Seriously, spot on.
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With the advent of modern technology, dating has been reduced dramatically to a swipe..
Exactly!
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